Oltre gli schemi, Millevoci 12.11.15
Millevoci 12.11.2015, 13:00
Quali sono le trappole mentali più frequentate? Perché è così difficile uscire dal nostro piccolo delirio privato? Ognuno di noi è chiuso in una sua nebbia personale, in una visione del mondo o in un insieme di credenze che a volte, viste dall'esterno, appaiono agli altri, perfino a chi ci vuol bene, del tutto incomprensibili, o assurde. Spesso siamo impermeabili alle confutazioni che ci giungono da più parti, come se il nucleo del nostro fermo atteggiamento fosse irraggiungibile. Quanto è irritante per chi cerca di aiutarci a vedere la realtà diversamente!
Sono osservazioni tratte dal libro, "Il bello di uscire dagli schemi: Superare rigidità e trappole mentali, vivere flessibili e felici", scritto dalla psicologa e psicoterapeuta Olga Chiaia. Ospite a Millevoci Gianni Bertossa, clown sociale.
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